There is More than One Way
In old romantic movies, the man always surprises the woman with the ring. In today’s world, a surprise may still be the right path for some engagements. For others, and especially if they have been making decisions together and the discussion of marriage and a diamond has been open and shared, shopping together may feel very exciting and romantic.

Shopping Alone
Some men will come prepared with some information about her likes and tastes. This is a good guide for choosing a classic ring that will fit into her lifestyle beautifully. Sometimes advice from her sister or a friend can help tailor the ring to her wonderfully, while still protecting that element of surprise. If a man can have information about her finger size, the ring can be ready for her finger—if not, size alterations are done on a 24-hour turn around for diamond engagement rings, at no charge.

Shopping Together
Men should be aware that style decisions reflect her personality and lifestyle—and should be hers. Women should be aware that diamond size, quality and budget decisions are his to make. This makes shopping together a free experience to try on many styles, giving him an opportunity to watch her reactions and note the rings which linger on her finger before moving on to the next style. Cross Jewelers’ staff is happy to provide notes or to place on file preferences for future reference.

Shopping together many times means that you will visit our store together, and then that the man will return alone for more detailed discussions of exactly which diamond might be set into the style she prefers. The opportunity to surprise and delight her now comes from the timing and creativity of the proposal. We have found this combination affords a high degree of satisfaction with the experience for both the lady and the gentleman.